Showing posts with label Dad. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Dad. Show all posts

Thursday, May 25, 2017

how firm a foundation

I just throw on foundation and under-eye concealer, then dust bronzer on my cheeks so they look defined. ~Camila Alves

(Sorry! LOL! I searched for quotes about having a firm foundation and that one came up and I just couldn’t resist.)

Adapted from a letter to Elder Baker, dated 5/22/17. . . .

Monday I went and played for a short rehearsal at the high school. It was a super busy day with the house. I am fielding lots of texts and calls as general contractor, and I feel like I can hardly leave the house during normal work hours. In fact, I had to take a call just before the choir director began a song, right there onstage with the whole honor choir waiting for me!

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1 - Basement pouring day

  Tuesday was a big day. The concrete for the basement was poured. It took from 7am to about 1:30pm, and was so interesting to watch. Hummer stayed home from school and we worked together on digging holes for trees and spent lots of time just watching in amazement. We were relieved that the threatening clouds never did dump, but only sprinkled a couple of times. It was surprisingly cold and of course breezy. That night was the high school choir concert and I played for 6 songs. They were all from movies or musicals, including Moana. :)

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3 - Russell's BD lunch

Wednesday was Fluffy's birthday! I can't believe that sweet fluffy baby of mine is 16 now! We had a special breakfast and invited Nana and Grandpa to join us. We put candles on Fluffy's pancakes and sang to him. Daddy had the day off, and we had the special experience of going to perform with Fluffy for his choir performance project. He sang the Erbarme Dich aria from St. Matthew Passion and Daddy played the violin part (I played the piano). It was so beautiful, and the choir was such a gracious, generous audience! Then we took Fluffy to Emalee's Carniceria for lunch.

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4 - Bunny palace in transit

Later that day the menfolk worked on getting Hummer’s Bunny Palace from the workshop out to our property. Hummer and Grandpa have been working on it for months and it is huge and beautiful. We hope many bunnies will live happily and luxuriously there. (In the photo above, Rosebud is trying to get her kitten Moana out from under the truck.)

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5 - Field day at GWA

  Thursday workers came back to the house to continue the blockwork on the basement walls. Rosebud stayed home sick from school. Hummer got dragged to school. This was ironic, because it was going to be Field Day, and while H did not want to go, Rosebud really wanted to go but couldn't. She had a bad headache and bright red tonsils, which made me suspect strep throat. She rested and watched Moana and took a nap in the afternoon. She still noticed out her bedroom window, though, when Puffball caught a mouse out at the pavilion! He is such an awesome cat. I took Rosebud to the doctor and she tested negative for strep. I guess it's just a bad virus.

That night Fluffy went to the Madrigals concert and was introduced as one of the new Madrigals. The rest of us stayed home and enjoyed a visit from the missionaries, who followed up on our family mission plan. I am grateful for experiences I have already had and things I am already learning as a result of this mission plan. I think I had been leaving my charity in the car when I go to Walmart! But this last time I remembered the mission plan and knew this would be an opportunity to make someone smile. I ended up having a wonderful conversation with the cashier!

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6 - Cornelius, Olivia, Rosemary

  Rosebud with Cornelius and Olivia.

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7 - Ham giving himself a haircut

  Hummer giving himself a haircut for the first time. It actually looked good! :)

Friday morning at 5:15am Fluffy was kidnapped by two senior choir students to be taken to a breakfast for the Madrigals. Later Fluffy and Hummer and a friend went to the temple and did baptisms. That evening was the Fathers and Sons campout near Vernon, AZ. While Grandpa, Daddy, Fluffy, and Hummer were gone to that, Nana and Rosebud and I went to "High Tea" at the Celebrations restaurant. It was so elegant and fun. Later we painted our nails and watched the "Great British Bakeoff" show.

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8 - Mother-Daughter date

9 - High Tea at Celebrations

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11 - Rosemary in the hammock

Saturday we had a classic day at home, with lots of productivity and hanging out with cats. Saturday jobs, haircuts, digging tree holes (we planted the Christmas tree! :), and Hummer even got Rosebud's hammock installed in the ash tree behind our apartment. Daddy and I went on a date where we walked on the sidewalks around the temple neighborhood, which are nicely lit at night. Then we watched some GBB and had ice cream.

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12 - Moana and Olivia

Now it is Monday afternoon, and I am trying to hurry and finish this up before going to pick up your siblings and get busy with Fluffy's BD dinner and party. But first I have to tell you about yesterday. Yesterday Fluffy was ordained to the office of priest by Daddy. Grandpa and Bishop assisted. It is wonderful to se the light and goodness in Fluffy's face! He is growing into such an awesome young man!

I am always mindful of you in my prayers and at many other times, too. I love you so much, Exacto! Have a wonderful week!

Love,

Mommy

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Our Family Mission Plan

Daily -- Pray for missionary opportunities

        -- Make someone smile (by serving them, finding out sth about them, complimenting them, talking friendly, making them laugh, etc.)

        -- Report at dinner

Sundays -- Notice and make a visitor feel welcomed and loved

              -- Look around and ask, "Who is missing?"

              -- Review this plan at our family council and make any changes we feel inspired to make

Monthly -- Invite someone to a family activity, FHE, church activity, or service opportunity

            -- Fast for missionary opportunities

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Rosebud and I were discussing the crazy chicken on Moana, to whom I referred by the feminine pronoun.

Rosebud: You think Hei Hei's a girl?

Me: Yes.

Rosebud: He's definitely a boy. I can tell by his personality!

(Later she clarified: "He's super silly. He's one of my favorite characters.")

Monday, October 5, 2009

Day 39 - { Dad }

100 days of gratitude tagI only have to think about my Dad, and my heart just swells up and overflows with love and gratitude. He is simply the best in the world.

I can't think of a single moment when I did not know that he loved me and would do anything in his power to protect me, provide for me, and to help me be happy and return to Heavenly Father.

Dad makes me think of . . . .

peanut butter,

crazy-imaginative bedtime stories,

Saturday morning pancakes with a background of mariachi music,

dachshunds,

musical "bigotry" :),

homemade bread,

"Daddy-back" rides and tickle monsters,

patient piano lessons,

Barber's Adagio for Strings and Bartok's Concerto for Orchestra,

hiking among saguaros in the Arizona mountains,

tight hugs and approving, tear-filled words,

unconditional love.

 

Today is his birthday, and I want to share with you a special poem I wrote for him as a Christmas gift about 5 years ago. This is my Dad. . . .

Dad's BD

 

I love you with all my heart, Dad! Happy Birthday!

Sunday, May 31, 2009

Day 28 - { my lake isle of Inisfree }

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And I shall have some peace there, for peace comes dropping slow. . . ."
The Lake Isle of Inisfree, William Butler Yeats

We are at my parents' home in rural Arizona.

The boys are pretty much chained to the Foozball table, Ruby is enjoying hanging out with Dad's dachshund Molly (as long as Molly's not going for her jugular), and pretty soon all my siblings except two, and their families, will be here. It's so awesome. Family is the greatest joy.

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(all pictures are from last summer)

Just being here in the desert again is bringing me great joy.

I grew up in the outskirts of Tucson, and my heart belongs to the Arizona desert. There is nothing more soothing to me than to be outside in the early morning, hearing the mourning doves coo, and feeling the cool, dry breeze, and seeing the enormous blue sky everywhere I turn.

My parents don't live in Tucson anymore, but I find that same clear open comfort here in the high desert of the White Mountains.

There's not much that ails me that being here can't cure. Or at least help! :)

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Early monsoon storms

A huge variety of new and interesting snacks to soothe my ever-cranky tummy :)


Swimming with the boys in a chlorine-saturated pool, with their shrieks echoing off the stucco walls

Long conversations with Mom while she cuts up fruit for breakfast


Sitting on the enormous rock that holds Benjamin's memorial, full of peaceful, thankful thoughts tinged with tears


A warm cat on my belly while I study the scriptures


Helping my dad plant the garden, harvesting rocks and tumbleweeds first


Watching a rainstorm slowly approach from 30 miles away


If you've never been here, it's hard to describe the sheer openness. You can see the horizon in a complete circle. And then there's the intense quiet. At night, the gazillions of stars.

We've only been here a day and a half, but I can feel already the strength beginning to return to me after a difficult couple of months. I am filled with gratitude for the peace I can find here.

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Wednesday, October 29, 2008

Day 5 - {Mom and Dad}

100 days of gratitude tag  I look ahead to the next few days, and I am scared. Scared at what emotional earthquakes might be triggered by the anniversaries about to happen.

10/31 the last day I felt Benjamin move - the day he died

11/1 the day of my last doctor's appointment before the scheduled C-section - when I saw the doctor's face grow very serious and heard him say, "I'm not finding a heartbeat"

11/2 the day Mom and Dad and Joseph and Becky and Mandy and Ari arrived to help us - my last day to hold Benjamin inside me

11/3 the day he was born - our only day to see and hold him in this life

A few weeks ago, I mentioned to Mom that it would be so wonderful to have them here to help us celebrate Benjamin's birthday. I knew that they would come if they could, but I also knew she and Dad had been traveling a lot, and Dad is under a lot of pressure at work, so I tried to invite them in a way that wouldn't make them feel bad if they couldn't.

 

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Meanwhile, in case they couldn't come, we made plans to go up to northwestern Arkansas this weekend and see the fall colors. I couldn't stand the thought of being here at home alone for the Anniversaries.

 

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It is a 17 hour drive from Mom and Dad's house to ours.

 

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I just called them an hour and a half ago, and they were leaving to come!!

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They will take a detour to Dallas to pick up my sister Becky and her little cutie and arrive here tomorrow sometime.20060715-2 Nana with a sleeping Hyrum edit

I feel so blessed to have parents who would be willing to make such a drive just for a four-day visit to help one of their eight children!

 

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